March 13, 2020

Good providers will have strong boundaries because those processes work to keep them free from time-wasters, at least, and safe from people with seriously bad intentions at best.

February 20, 2020

Healthy consensual sex is natural, feels good, and is good for you. It's not about performance.

When we stop obsessing about performance our mind is freed to notice deeper satisfaction by opening up to immediate sensations. For me, sex is one of the...

January 13, 2020

I LOVE SEX TOYS! My favorite toys are ones that WORK.

Any sex toy that gets you aroused, or heightens your arousal/orgasm while remaining safe and healthy is okay in my book. When traveling I go out of my way to find local sex-toy shops where I can explore different mat...

August 27, 2019

Non-monogamy, serial-monogamy, extra-marital sex, and polyamory are different ways of saying, "I want to have sex with other people." Ninety-nine percent (99%) of men I've met handily fall in this category. Yet, and somewhat irrationally, all feel very alone.  All feel...